You hear stories about people with cancer, fighting for their lives. Michael Furlong CTE Teacher, AVID Elective Teacher. He despises the word "special." It's now a full-on escort -- a motorized wheelchair flanked by two cars with their hazards flashing. Bob eventually turned to alcohol. Check out Bay Area safety tracker, Bay Area Life; Sundays at 6:30 p.m. on ABC7, Football coach born without arms or legs to receive Jimmy V Award for Perseverance at 2019 ESPYS, Rob Mendez accepts the 2019 Jimmy V Perseverance Award at the ESPYS on July 10. I'd completely forgotten that Mendez can't feed himself. He has spent his life fighting statistics, proving doctors and doubters wrong. I pick up a fork, stab it into the roll, drag it through a puddle of soy sauce and put it in his mouth. "It's only natural to never give up," Mendez said. He started as a manager on his Gilroy High School team as a freshman. Confirmation/Rejection emails will be sent out by 1:00 PM Thursday letting you know if you are awarded tickets. It's an image his brain can't compute. They are teachers who coach on the side. It's just me. On this night, on the same field where this journey began, Mendez gathers his team one last time. Key California high school football games, computer rankings, statewide stat leaders, schedules and scores - live and final. Contents 1 Academics 2 Athletics 3 Campus 4 Other 5 Notable alumni 6 See also 7 References 8 External links Academics [ edit] Prospect offers a mix of advanced and on-level classes. Eventually, he became the head coach of. IT'S THE BIGGEST weekend of the year in Gilroy, California, with more than 100,000 people visiting for the annual garlic festival. Luis Lopez, the JV coach who worked with Mendez at the school, hugs Mendez. "When someone is born this way, this is their world," says Dr. Benjamin Mandac, Mendez's pediatric physical therapist who now is the head of that department at Kaiser Permanente in the Bay Area. This is the opportunity he has waited 12 years for, the one he long felt he deserved but worried would never come. I might take two steps forward and then one step back. he yells. He is 50 pounds of head, neck, torso and waist. The other kids are special, too. His older sister, Jackie, pushed her brother to try new things and one day tucked a PlayStation controller under his chin. "I love you, bro. I've always wanted to be a head coach.". The battery on his wheelchair is dead, and he wants to charge it at school overnight. A young boy holds open the door as Mendez approaches his favorite spot. "This is a defining moment for our program," Vierneisel said. He put the name into Google. By Tuesday afternoon, he's back at Prospect for practice, apologizing to his players for Monday's absence. I swear I buckled him in. But later he acknowledges he hated having to ask for help. It has given him a life otherwise inaccessible. Head Coach: Dan DeBoeuf Assistant Coach: Tim Beishir, Jeff Collier, Matt Weber, Jim Argentine, Dan Keller Brock Collins, Sean Cummins Matt Weber Jeff Collier Jim Argentine Michael Watson Dominic Cannon Mike Naboltny Tom Whalen Erik Hammerstrom Dan Yeoman Shaun Cummins Dan Keller School Administration Principal: Greg Minter Athletic Director: Omar Alebiosu Athletic Secretary: Amy Nickel School Color: Columbia and Navy Nick Name: Knights I'm lazy. "He's an inspiration to all of us," Alvernaz, said. The day is designed by college coaches in order to get the most out of . The search for Aaron Rodgers, IT'S THE BIGGEST weekend of the year in Gilroy, California, with more than 100,000 people visiting for the annual garlic festival. He immediately snaps. What if I drop him? He is mobile thanks to the chair he controls with his head and neck. For now, he's still glowing from the impact his team had on him in his first JV season. LESS THAN TWO weeks before his son's first game as a head coach, Bob Mendez prepares to drive Rob home after Sunday family dinner. Work Environment Part-time work is common for coaches and scouts. Prepped at Blackman High School under head coach Chandler Tygard . "It is a quick turnaround that's for sure, "said Prospect coach Dan DeBoeuf, whose team was able to get a full practice completed Monday afternoon. As much as he doesn't want this syndrome to define him, at the same time there's a part of him that loves the fact that it sort of does. "As he approached, I didn't know how he could be a football coach. Rob's parents tried to integrate him as early as they could, putting him in preschool at 18 months. He even got to call some plays. I just want to prove them wrong. When his players ask what happened, he tells them he got into a fight with the pavement. On Feb. 23, Dan DeBoeuf, the former head coach at Johnsburg High School was named the head coach of Prospect. Complaining is my No. Rob is no different.". 14 prospect in the state of Tennessee . How does he eat? As much as he doesn't want this syndrome to define him, at the same time there's a part of him that loves the fact that it sort of does. Bob hears the sound from a few feet away. He asks his quarterback for a hug. Preston Gannaway for ESPN, A FEW MINUTES after our first beer, a bartender brings Mendez a plate of California rolls. He says thank you. And with that, in this world, I know I'm going to be all right." On Rob's first day of kindergarten, they watched nervously behind a glass window as other 4- and 5-year-olds approached their son eager to learn about something most of them couldn't comprehend. Afterward, Bob says doctors and nurses would walk by and stare. He despises the word "special.". He was recently appointed as the President of the California Coaches Association. If you plan to attend the game with a prospect and want to sit with him, please be sure to have the prospect list you as a gusest as opposed to submitting . 2021 IHSA Football Playoffs. I make mistakes. But after losing the season opener to Santa Clara, his Panthers won seven games in a row. I'm proud of everyone. I can adjust to anything that's thrown my way. He talked about building a family. On this night, on the same field where this journey began, Mendez gathers his team one last time. "They would whisper," he says. Alvernaz hired Mendez to be on his staff, but then followed Mendez to Prospect to be his number two. He reads, draws and spends extra time with family and friends. But he's always there for the kids. How does he go to the bathroom? Prospect stifled Evanston on two late fourth quarter drives, and senior Gavin Flanagan booted the game-winning field goal as Prospect survived with a 17-14 Homecoming win to improve to 3-0 on. "Like a pancake hitting the ground. He sees me, and he stands up straight and pulls himself together so he can open the door for me. For the next 12 years, he worked as an assistant coach at five high schools, waiting for someone to believe in him as a head coach. Only football coach requests will be accepted. "Said they wanted to move on without me," Mendez says. High School North Kansas City . Doctors prepared her and her husband for the worst. Cable obliged. was something that was very much for me to always stick with and I hope people take away from it in a positive way where they are comfortable to motivate themselves to do whatever they want in life.". Make sense? "Yes!" A 10-story building hitting the ground. His father has long wished that Rob would wear an upper belt as well as the one that wraps around his waist. Elk Grove Village, IL. "But even before he could talk, I said, 'Somewhere, somebody is going to open a door for this kid and he's going to shine.'" In most cases of tetra-amelia, death occurs before birth. He says they need him, but you know what? They gave me a feeling of importance. The driver makes a U-turn, pulls in front of Mendez and flips on his hazards. I make mistakes. Randy Clark (class of 1975) . "Just focus -- you got this." Preston Gannaway for ESPN When he's away from home, he's careful about what he eats and drinks, often keeping it to no more than an iced coffee. How does he coach football? But Rob refuses because the upper belt limits his ability to access his phone and draw plays. His torso pushes against his belt. The Transfer Portal Changes How College Coaches Recruit High School Football Players - Inside the Knights The Transfer Portal, How it Changes High School Football Recruiting High. When the final buzzer sounds, the players and coaches line up at the 50 to shake hands. Preston Gannaway for ESPN And just like that, the man who so often projects like everything is fine rips off his facade. The throw is too long, and the ball harmlessly caroms out of bounds. "You know how it is." How does he sleep? And ended each practice with the same message: I love you guys. "I appreciate you," Mendez says. Practice starts in a few days. He insists he's fine, and we order beers. But Mendez won't give up that easily. He has spent his life fighting statistics, proving doctors and doubters wrong. You're different. Now the entire Prospect program circles around Mendez at midfield. How to Be a High School Football Coach Download Article parts 1 Gaining the Necessary Skills 2 Landing a Job 3 Becoming a Great Coach Other Sections Related Articles References Co-authored by wikiHow Staff Last Updated: June 10, 2021 References Coaching high school football requires more than passion for the game. Im fighting to have something to drink. Minorities make up 73 percent of the student body. His comes with a straw. But I don't know what else to say. The school they will face, Ann Sobrato, fired Mendez as an assistant three years earlier. He needs to use the bathroom. "Hey," he says, "Would you mind giving me a hand and putting one of those in my mouth?" Tears begin to fall. He sees me, and he stands up straight and pulls himself together so he can open the door for me. But seven? He immediately snaps. "But I don't think about this the same way everybody else does. Tired. It's the Friday night before Halloween. It wasn't like there was a store to buy clothes or toys for children with no arms and legs. In the morning, he will coach the biggest game of his young career. So I try not to complain. ", "Yes, Coach," the quarterback says. DeBoeuf could not be more honored to be chosen to replace Martindale. And his roommate is resting back at home, exhausted from a pair of Vegas nights. And because of Rob's lack of limbs, his father says he retains 30 percent more heat than someone who has arms and legs. How safe is your neighborhood? "He told me that I couldn't go out there and dance with a girl. In less than a minute he introduces himself, then me and strikes up a conversation. It's an accomplishment to the public because I have no arms and legs, but the reality is I'm not accomplished. Some might suggest he should be home, resting. I couldn't tell you what it felt like to catch a ball in the flat, but I knew what it was and why it worked.". Mendez tries to explain, but the kid doesn't get it. SARATOGA, Calif. (KGO) -- Bay Area high school football coach Rob Mendez was born with a rare disorder called tetra-amelia syndrome, leaving him with no arms or legs. Mendez shakes his head. And few at Prospect High School, some 40 miles up the road in Saratoga, can remember the last time its JV won much of anything. "Let's go!" After a few minutes of conversation, Cable believed he had his man. And now for Odell Beckham Jr's next act "I've always been like that ever since I was young. "Let's get to the bottom of it. It actually came well before Mendez started coaching football. Prospect Reels produces high quality sports highlight videos so you can market your athletic skills to college coaches, recruiters, and others who can help you get recruited. He knows what he has given his team. The team jogs over and surrounds him. St. Rita High School. "I think every parent worries about their kids when they leave this earth," Bob says. He demanded respect, eye contact and accountability. We make it to his home. But at 24, I didn't really know what to do or say at the time." At that point, she says, abortion wasn't an option. "There's no way," he says. Mendez orders a water. At the end of every day, I'm sore." "Great job, Coach. But on this late July night, 30-year-old high school football coach Rob Mendez has a taste for sushi. . What do you want people to say about this team? "I just try to shut it down as quickly as possible." I love the feeling when I lift kids up. College Football Prospect ID events are the first premier event following the 2022 high school and college football seasons. Mendez doesn't buy it. Any other details they should know (If you have previously attended the school's camp or met the coaches) Sample Introductory Email: To: Reed@email.edu, RecruitingCoordinator@email.edu, SecondAssistant@email.edu. Mendez looks up as the quarterback's pass sails overhead. He learned to press the buttons with his chin and collarbone. It isn't the first time Rob has fallen out of his chair. I agree it's a small percentage. The Illinois High School Association football playoff semifinals are scheduled for Saturday, Nov. 20 and the championship games Friday, Nov. 26 and Saturday, Nov. 27. It's a move he makes countless times a day. He rolls in wearing a plain white T-shirt and faded red San Francisco 49ers hat. Getting dressed. he says. "Rob? "Just focus -- you got this.". "It was just it was horrible," Bob says. "There's no way," he says. The season has been a greater success than Mendez could have imagined. However, the phrase was not born on the gridiron. After a few minutes of conversation, he seemed like any other football coach having a beer on a Friday night. "That's how humans are -- they adapt. His parents connected him with Vujicic, who Mendez said told him he could make $25,000 per night as a motivational speaker. Watch Later. He put the name into Google. It doesn't lead to a good place. But here, he's in his element. The quarterback removes the cap from a blue dry erase pen and puts it in Mendez's mouth. "Yes, Coach," the quarterback says. He couldn't get enough. Pick a play, execute for a few seconds, take a break, pick another play and repeat. "We have unfinished business.". he says. And to just kill the pain," he says. She says she couldn't look at her son for the first couple of weeks. Not until he nearly received a DUI driving Rob's handicapped accessible van did he realize the path he was on. Where do I put my hands? Preston Gannaway for ESPN. But I don't know what else to say. I'm not beautiful at all. "Complaining is my No. They gave me a feeling of importance. "This was confirmation that you know what, I'm doing OK," he says. This is the first opportunity for college coaches and high school football players to interact directly with each other on the football field. . He hates talking about any of this. I mention that it seems as if anything that reminds him of his physical challenges bugs him. He draws and writes with his mouth. Wayne DrehsDrehs is a senior writer for ESPN. But later he acknowledges he hated having to ask for help. Mendez is hungry. Going to the bathroom. It confirmed how much he despises losing. And Mendez had the title he had achingly sought: head coach. "Like a pancake hitting the ground. Mendez didnt allow his differences to limit him, though, and developed a passion for coaching by learning the game of football by playing Madden video games. As the clock approaches 11 p.m., he looks at his empty glass and asks for another drink. I think back to something his pediatric physical therapist told me. And to just kill the pain," he says. By his senior year, he worked his way up to quarterbacks coach. Come play a 9-hole scramble at Sunken Gardens in Sunnyvale on July 30th! ", Physically, Mendez is unlike any other high school football coach in the U.S. Mentally and emotionally, he's no different. 9 overall prospect in the country. I agree it's a small percentage. It's society that imposes that grief. But here, he's in his element. Nor did he and Josie have any idea how to take care of this baby. Mendez didn't care. Some newborns survive only a few hours or days. You MUST have the correct code in order to receive tickets. Push the limits. He learned to press the buttons with his chin and collarbone. It's now a full-on escort -- a motorized wheelchair flanked by two cars with their hazards flashing. Rob's parents tried to integrate him as early as they could, putting him in preschool at 18 months. Email Michael Furlong. ESPN senior writer Wayne Drehs contributed to the documentary as a writer and reporter. Coach Reed, My name is Johnny Appleseed. The last question is far more complicated. ! Next year you'll be back in it, believe me." "By the time I was a senior in high school I was wearing a headset with the coaches and listening to them," he said. Mendez was born with tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare congenital disorder that prevents the formation of limbs during embryonic development. "I just wanted to coach football.". "How in the world am I supposed to handle that?" He can see how they've grown as players and people. He knows what he has given his team. It took him more than a half hour - sometimes two steps up, one step down -- but he did it. "I can guarantee you there is someone with no arms and legs living in the mountains somewhere with a whole different story who isn't as active as we are. When his friends played basketball, Rob was the referee. I'm proud of everyone. With a dream of one day becoming a head football coach, Mendez worked for years as an assistant at various schools, until he was finally given the opportunity he'd been working for. How are you going to get there?". "I got it. 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